DEALING WITH YOURSELF WHEN THE SOCIAL DYNAMIC OF YOUR FAMILY WON'T CHANGE
I am a very family-oriented person but,
my family practiced social distancing before it became mainstream. I am not
only talking about my immediate family, I mean the whole family throughout the
United States, except for three people. I used to socially isolate myself, because
it is a behavior I learned from my family. Breaking free of social anxiety took
years for me to do. There are other negative habits I am still working on to
overcome because of social distancing. COVID-19 hasn't changed the social dynamic of my
family, sadly. I am sure it is not changing the social dynamic of many
families.
The only way to handle social
irresponsibility within your family, is to focus on the change you want to see
for yourself. Use social distancing to work on yourself now, so you can find
the right people to support the healthy habits you want to see for yourself.
Don't feel guilty about wanting a better life for yourself, because you cannot force
others to change. Set healthy boundaries with those who are not on your same
vibrational level, whether they are family or not. Meditation has given me the
strength to do so by clarifying who is there to help me serve my purpose. For a customized meditation to help find your purpose and attract the right people into your life, contact me here for a free wellness e-coaching session.